Everything and the Big Reveal
So! I was under the impression that we were going to have wifi at the Bangalore hotel (probably because it was advertised as having wifi), and technically, I guess, we did – but only about three comments’ worth. Certainly not enough to finish and publish the post I half-baked before we left. I don’t know – maybe we didn’t tip properly? Update: A sends me this diagram about where wifi fits into Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.
In any case we are back, we had a fantastic time, and I want to tell you about it way more than I want to sort out a whole pile of stinky laundry, but at the same time I’m not keen on walking to the kindergarten naked tomorrow morning like one of those anxious nightmares everyone apparently has, so instead I will leave you with this slightly-more-baked but very belated photo challenge post – kids and sleep – which includes our Outfits Of The Day for Saturday, the day of the Big Ceremony. And then I will go and read your stuff because you are awesome. And then I will sort out stinky laundry. Probably. And at some point I’ll tell you all about it, try and stop me.
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Some children don’t sleep well. There is no need to feel bad about this, unless you are literally feeding your child on a diet of coke – and by “coke” I don’t mean cola. Actually I do, and I don’t think it’s the least bit hysterical to lump soft drinks in with illegal stimulants, because I gained my sense of parenting perspective from reading online mummy forums.
In any case, cola wasn’t necessary when it came to disrupting the sleep of my darling firstborn, who used to wake us hourly with his piercing cry. My mother assured me this period would last but a few, scant years, but in her defence, she was long finished parenting by the time smartphones were invented.
I was going to punish him, but I might want to put him in charge of my social media.
Life, and especially travel, is harder with a poor sleeper. I can say this with authority, because I have experienced both ends of the spectrum:
Not featured: the photo I can’t find where T put her head down on the top of her father’s head whilst riding on his shoulders and nodded contentedly off, leaving A to worry about how he was going to stop a slumbering toddler falling backwards from his neck and braining herself on the concrete.
No matter what depths of sleep deprivation you plumb, however, on some days it’s worth the journey:
(And one more so you can see the earrings:)
This post is part of Eszter’s Weekend Photo Challenge (sleeping). Here’s everyone else I found-
And please tell me off in the comments if I missed you.
Ahh. Brings back sleep deprived memories..lovely pics and GREAT earrings! xxx
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Thanks! (I actually managed to break one of them by the end so I’m very glad I at least got a picture before then).
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Bronwyn, we always empathize with parents traveling with little ones. Long, boring, uncomfortable plane, train, or bus rides are hard enough for an adult to tolerate. And then there’s the whole perception of time thing. To adults an hour is an hour, but to kids it’s an eternity. Jolly good for you and your husband for getting your kids out to experience the world. I know it must be incredibly hard work, and a true labor of love. ~James
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Better hard work than unsatisfying work. We love to travel so we don’t mind pulling out a few extra stops – we’d rather that than stay at home (and of course there’s travelling to visit family, too, or for work). I do appreciate how much easier it is now the youngest is over two, though.
You’re very right than the trials of travel are usually trials for any age!
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Rosie does Not Do sleep. I am typing this from one of her not doing moments that shall occur tonight…..
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Wow you got exactly no breaks on that one, then. Even twins who sleep well would be more disruptive than a singleton who doesn’t.
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Depends. I think the twins were easier than Rosie after the early horrible days of going from feed to feed without rest overnight because of reflux and the bonus vomiting ++. Rosie was in my bed with me for six months after I went back to work. Dark days!
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I don’t have time tonight to read anymore of your blog than this one post and your about page, but what joy it has brought to me. Thank you. I look forward to reading more of your stuff later.
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Thanks! Hope it matches up…
I’ve enjoyed your travels, too, and especially enjoying the recent posts about my home stomping grounds.
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Great pictures! So sorry about the alarms, that sounds like something my oldest (who is also a terrible sleeper) would do. I love the photo of the family dressed for the Indian wedding! Excellent choices all around!
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Thanks! T got a similar dress in orange and purple, too. She loves them both.
From your latest post your son’s sleeping habits sound a lot like mine! He has just recently grown out of crawling into our bed in the middle of the night, though he still comes in in the morning. I guess he’ll stop altogether sooner or later.
Luckily I checked the alarms and didn’t just switch it off, only to be woken an hour later!
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My favorite pic is the sleeping on the paddle board, I never thought that was possible, but if I think about it, with the rocking motion of the ocean it is easy…:) All 4 of you looked fabulous at the wedding. Did you use the toy box in your hair on the train for entertainment? Thanks for adding my link:)
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Yes, I thought that was pretty amazing, but apparently the waves do rock a few kids to sleep. It’s just… wet! I still find it quite stunning.
Yes, we used the toy box in my hair, and for now I’ve just updated the original post with the results of the experiment (at the bottom):
…but I’ll have to try and mention it in a new post as well.
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Great pics and love the pink and EARRINGS two of my favourite things – as for sleep can totally relate – am an insomniac and Mstr 8 is a poor sleeper too – Can’t wait to read about the train journey…if you went ahead with it
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Yes, we did go ahead with the train trip and it was great. Will definitely have to tell you about that one. Luckily the sleep worked out ok on the train, and glad to hear from another parent who’s faced the same problem!
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Oh, just found this comment again! I just wrote about the train journey, but my feed’s bit broken.
More info on the broken feed here:
https://journeysofthefabulist.wordpress.com/2013/10/19/my-feed-is-broken/
…but the upshot is that if you follow me using the wordpress reader you may have to unfollow and re-follow me if you want to keep following me. If you can follow that 😉
In the meantime, the Malpe Beach post is here:
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Hi B, tried to unfollow and then follow – but all I get is a blank screen on your page with a tiny ? in a blue frame at the centre of the page?
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Welcome back! Adorable sleeping pics! Can’t wait to read more about tha wedding.
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Thanks! Just trying to work out where to start!
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I’m a horrible sleeper, so can relate to that. It’s usually after the trip, once the adrenaline crashes, that I find myself crashing, too.
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It’s definitely adrenalin, the trouble being that he finds everyday life thrilling enough to forgo sleep, never mind travel. But he’s better at home and getting better (more apathetic about life?) as he ages. Hopefully, like you, he’ll always find travel exciting enough to stay awake for.
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You have a rockin’ sleeper on your hands!
The Indian outfits look awesome and I am so happy you went with the pink!! You look awesome….as do the earrings!! Looking forward to the story after the laundry!!
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Thanks! And yes – not my doing, she just came out like that. Same (but opposite) with the other one. For all the parenting books, there’s still only so much you can do.
Glad you were looking at the earrings, not the wrinkles 😉
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Great you have a photo together in your Indian Wedding outfits – did the kids have fun with theirs and did you all recognize each other?! I didn’t guess the right one but you all (and earrings) look terrific!
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T loves her “ballerina dresses” (she actually ended up with two – we had three changes of clothes for three events, but these were our Indian-style outfits which we were requested to wear for the ceremony itself (otherwise it was optional).
T wore her “ballerina dresses” to all three. P was less than impressed with his until a lizard mistook him for a piece of foliage and crawled on to his sleeve – then he was converted.
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P fits right in with the naturalist part of his image. T sounds happy to go with the culture – I think she’ll have an interesting wardrobe in times to come.
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The funny, kids fall asleep everywhere starts around 2 years old of age?
Lovely pictures! All of them!
xoxo, Eszter
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No, she was always like that, but baby in a sling doesn’t make an interesting picture! Hence you have toddler age forward (and yes, seems like most are from two up… now you mention it) . P is starting to sleep more easily now he’s five – but still nothing like T.
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The sleeping pics are classic… Reminds me of the time I sledged from the top to the bottom of a medium-sized Alp, getting rigor mortis in my leg from fighting to stay out of the void, only to discover when I moved in for a high five at the bottom – son fast asleep all the way…
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Ha! Wow. It’s amazing where some kids will sleep. On a fast-moving sled is definitely a contender for most baffling.
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